Why does a long-anticipated game become boring so quickly?
First, this really isn’t a game. You see, there’s no opponent—just your
favorite team divided into two unofficial squads playing each other. Your
alma mater will neither win nor lose.
Second, the rules barely resemble an actual game. Instead of the
regulation fifteen minute quarters, the scrimmage game allots eight to ten
minute quarters. The quarterback wears a different colored jersey, and you
are surprised what this indicates. Nobody can tackle him. You mean we came
all this way to watch touch football? That’s right. Ho hum again.
Third, play selection will be bland at best. After all, scouts from next
year’s opponents will be watching—if not in person, then on television. The
result: Very little opportunity for razzle-dazzle.
What am I driving at with this overview of spring football games? Exactly
this: In sports, life, and business, we prefer real competition to bland
imitations. Watered-down contests might sound appealing, yet almost
instantly we will yearn for the real thing.
Consider this example: Did you ever have a job--even for a few
months--that demanded very little effort? If so, what was that like for you?
Typically:
- The clock never seemed to move.
- You missed getting revved up over a challenging assignment
- You never felt pride in accomplishing something big
- Your motivation plummeted
Now here is the really good news: As stressed as all of us are about
massive job losses, failing industries, shrinking portfolios, and life style
changes, innately we are geared to compete. We prefer action to apathy,
battle to boredom.
In conclusion: No one I know welcomes what’s happening to highly capable
people who have worked diligently, invested, and planned carefully. Even so,
our unbroken optimism is well founded. People still respect and live by
President Teddy Roosevelt’s famous statement that the “credit actually
belongs” to the person in the arena, who “knows in the end the triumph of
high achievement.”
Bill Lampton, Ph.D.--author of The Complete Communicator: Change Your Communication-change Your Life!
-- helps organizations "Learn More. . .Earn More" through his speeches,
seminars, and coaching. Visit his Web site:
http://www.ChampionshipCommunication.com Call Dr. Lampton: 678-316-4300