When my first home business book came out, a reader sent me a cartoon about
business dress. It showed various forms of attire. First was business-dress
Monday, and the character was dressed in a suit. The next character represented
relaxed Wednesday – he was tie-less in a sweater vest. Next was dress-down
Thursday – the character is in a short sleeve shirt, without a tie. Then came
Freelancer Friday. The character, who hadn’t shaved for a couple weeks, was in
rumpled pajamas and a beat-up open bathrobe.
I spend the first half of each workday in my bathrobe. In fact I have three
bathrobes, two flannel for cool mornings and a light cotton robe for the brief
period of warm mornings. All three are a bit frayed at the bottom from the days
the puppy was teething. I switch to sweat-pants and a tee-shirt around noon. I’d
stay in my bathrobe all day, but I have to walk to the street to get my mail,
and unlike Tony Soprano, I’m too self conscious to make the trek in my bathrobe.
When I have to meet a client, I get dressed up. But the meaning of dressed-up
changes all the time. In 1999 and 2000 I wrote heavily about the emerging dot
com revolution. When I attended my first Internet business conference, my editor
told me I didn’t need to wear a tie. I didn’t believe him. The conference was a
San Francisco gathering of dot com CEOs as well as highly-placed executives from
large corporations who were trying to figure out what was going on.
When I dressed the first morning of the conference, I just couldn’t leave the
hotel room without a tie. So it put one on and headed down to the conference. I
took one look at the crowd and headed back to my room, taking off my tie on the
way. Not one attendee was wearing a tie. Man, this was great.
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In 2001 the experience was reversed. The dot com generation not only failed,
they took the world economy down as they crashed. The antipathy to that young
crowd was thick across all business sectors. Business people put their ties back
on. By 2001, my dot com editor was out of the job as the magazine company pulled
the plug on an ecommerce publication. Now I had a new editor at an old-economy
magazine. When I headed to my first conference, my boss told me ties were
needed. I didn’t believe her. I strolled down to the gathering tie-less, took
one look around and headed right back to my room for a tie.
How should you dress when you run a home business? In an earlier column I
made fun of the notion that at-home sales people should dress up just as if they
were going out on an appointment because the formality produces confidence.
Apparently sharp clothes make you sound professional over the phone. I don’t
know about you, but I don’t necessarily feel more confident when I’m in a suit
and tie. I do, however, feel very confident when I’m in my bathrobe and there’s
kids playing with a yapping puppy in the background.
When you go to a conference or meet a client outside – or even inside – your
home, business attire rules do come into play. But your attire needs to be
adjusted depending on who you’re about to meet. If you’re speaking before a
group, dress one notch of formality higher than the group dresses. If you’re
trying to sell something to someone over lunch, you have to dress up in a suit
or at least a jacket and try your best to keep from splashing red chili on your
tie and white shirt. If the person you’re meeting is a peer – as in you’re
neither trying to sell nor are you buying – you can dress informally. The
sweater vest. If you’re meeting someone who is trying to sell you something, you
can show up unshaven in sweats.
Rob Spiegel is the author of Net Strategy (Dearborn)
and The Shoestring Entrepreneur’s Guide to Internet Start-ups (St.
Martin's Press). You can reach Rob at
robspiegel@comcast.net.
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