Evan, the 24 year old son of a successful second generation businessman,
arose early on a September morning, preparing to have breakfast with his father
and mother before going to the office. He had graduated from Wharton just a few
months before, and traveled throughout Europe during the summer. Today, he would
be going into the family business. His job and salary as yet undefined. As a
youngster he would occasionally visit the office, tour the plant and meet some
of his dad’s employees. Now, as an adult with the family name, he was about to
take advantage of those things that come with being the new generation in a
family business. As he entered the dining room where his mom and dad were
waiting for him, Evan was taken back by his dad’s first words, “Evan, go back
upstairs and put on a suit, shirt and tie. You are not on campus now, and
wearing your shirttail out is not considered proper attire in our company’s
employee manual.”
Somewhat startled by his father’s authoritarian tone, Evan held back his feeling
that it was just good luck and fine products that made the company so special
for over 60 years. “One more thing,” his farther admonished, “don’t drive the
Porsche to the plant today. Use my old Honda instead.” With that, Evan left the
room thinking, “It’s not going to be easy working for my dad.” “Worse,” he
thought, “dad’s brother is a partner in the Company, and his son, Danny, is in
charge of sales.”
After changing his clothes, Evan returned to the dinning room, where his
father asked him the following questions, “Evan, do you know how your
grandfather and grandmother started this company? Do you know who our longest
serving employees are and where they work? Have you read the Company Handbook on
what we are about, who we are, and what our feelings and attitudes are toward
our managers and other employees? Do you know who our top 20 customers are or
how many good customers we lost in the last 5 years?” Evan could barely drink
his coffee. “How am I supposed to know the answers to those questions? I just
got here!” Evan’s mother interrupted and said, “Your father doesn’t really think
you know all those answers…but some you should. You need to pay attention to the
culture of our family business which some day will be yours. It was never too
early to learn. You’re lucky that you don’t have to look for a job in this
terrible market. You must think of this as an opportunity to contribute to the
continued growth of the family business. We have 300 employees who depend upon
your dad, his brother and your cousins to keep the flame going.”
“Evan,” his dad said, “when we get to the office, I will take you around to
introduce and reintroduce to as many people as possible, and then I want you to
spend time with my brother and his son, Danny. I’m thinking of having you start
in sales. You need to learn about our customers. Also, as a family member, you
should be there every morning at 7:30 although everyone else starts at 8:30.” As
they left the house, Evan turned to his dad and said, “We never discussed how
much money I’ll make. What’s my starting salary?” His father said, “We’ll worry
about that later. Your mom and I will discuss it along with my partner, your
uncle. We’ll make you an offer you can’t refuse! By the way, Evan, when we are
at work, I’m not your dad, I’m the President.”
OBSERVATIONS
It is always difficult to look at relationships in ones own family business
and see what might have been said or done differently. Emotional reactions to
family members create conflicts which are not easily forgotten. And, it may run
counter to producing the behavior needed to maintain harmonious relationships in
the office or at the family dinner table.
What are some things that could have been done differently:
Evan, knowing he planned to go into the family business, might have worked on
projects relating to the business while at Wharton. He might have discussed his
untested ideas with his father and a dialogue would have begun on a higher level
before he entered the firm. Also, Evan should have been aware, as any new
employee on his or her first day at work, not to dress so casually.
It was also obvious that knowing Evan would be coming into the business, the
father did not do enough over the years to prepare his son and explain the
culture and dynamics that his parents created in building the business. While
Evan’s father was trying to set a business-like attitude toward work, his
authoritarian tone in dealing with his son on his important first day was too
strong. The promise that “some day this business will be yours” made by Evan’s
mother, could be froth with problems. His uncle and cousins may have a different
point of view. The mother was somewhat demeaning when she said, “You’re lucky
that you don’t have to look for a job in this terrible market.” As a Wharton
School graduate, most likely Evan would believe there would be opportunities
elsewhere.
The father was correct in establishing standards for his son, including that
it’s appropriate for him to come to work before other employees. He was also
correct when he told Evan to leave his Porsche at home.
Finally, it was necessary to determine Evan’s position and salary before his
first day at work. The fact that his salary and his place in the company would
be discussed with his uncle and his mother would make him uneasy. However, he
may have to live with the fact that in many family businesses there is not
always a pure linear business relationship from child to parent. In many cases,
the family business is a complex set of reporting relationships.
Knowing how to master those lines as a family member, a non-family manager or
employee is one of the keys to maintaining and growing a successful family
business.
Norman Goldberg has had over 30 years management experiences
at high level positions with companies such as Fortunoff, Bloomingdales,
Cablevision, Christian Dior, Diane Von Furstenberg, Cosmetique and others. He
has been deeply involved with family run businesses and is a guest lecturer at
The Arthur M. Blank Center for Entrepreneurship at Babson College. Mr. Goldberg
has served as an advisor to family companies in the retail, insurance, cosmetic,
jewelry and other industries. Mr. Goldberg is teaching a course at Hofstra
University entitled "How
to Maintain and Grow a Successful Family Business."
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