Supercharge Your Sales and Marketing with this Powerful Secret
by Kevin Stirtz
When I was just out of college, I was lucky enough to have a mentor.
He was a
successful businessman. He had a lot of energy and a million things going on at
any given moment.
We'd meet a couple times a month to talk about different things. I enjoyed our
meetings because he did a good job of sharing with me some of the business and
life lessons he had learned over the years.
One day we met for lunch at the Lincoln Del. This was a popular place for
business lunches. They had great food and servers with plenty of personality.
While we were waiting for our food my mentor said "pull out a pen and some paper
right now!" He was like that, very direct and all about action. "Write these
three things down," he said.
The three things he had me write down were his "success rules".
They were:
Always have a goal.
Never be afraid to fail.
Show up every day.
Now, 20 years later I still remember these "success rules". Even more
important, I understand them better and I use them better than I did when I
first wrote them down. Over the years, I've seen them in action so I know from
experience that they work. Any success I have I can attribute partly to my
friend and mentor sharing these ideas with me.
I just told you a story.
Instead of telling you a story, I could have just said, "these are three
success rules that work."
But I don't think that would have been as effective in communicating the
message. By telling you a story about something from my life, I got your
attention and (hopefully) held it to the end of the story. Because I made it
personal and real, it has more impact.
If you are involved in selling then keep reading because I am going to give
you a secret weapon to help you connect with more people and make more sales.
I've had the opportunity to listen to some very talented professional
speakers. And, I've had the experience of watching some not-so-skilled speakers.
The best speakers start with a story and they end with a story. They use
personal experiences to connect with their audience and to deliver their
message. They tell stories throughout their presentation. They do it well and it
works.
The other speakers give us facts, figures, charts, slide shows, etc. They
often put us to sleep because they never connect with us. They never really
reach us.
What is true for speakers is also true for salespeople (or anyone who needs
to communicate with others).
If you want to deliver a message or develop a relationship with someone, you
need to connect with them. An easy way to connect with them is to tell stories.
Too many salespeople spend too much time talking about their company, their
product or service and all the wonderful features they offer. They go on and on
about why we should buy from them. They bombard us with facts, figures and
opinions that mean a lot to them but are mostly unimportant to us.
When you do this, your prospect tunes out. The last thing they want to hear
is you talk about your company or product or service. They know you'll tell them
how great it is so what you have to say is really not very interesting to them.
And, the more facts and figures you throw at them, the less relevant those facts
will be because they're not interested in all that information.
On the other hand, if you tell your prospect a story, they will listen. They
will listen because your story will be:
Entertaining
Relevant
Personal
True
As listeners, we expect stories to be entertaining. As business people, we
need them to be relevant. As human beings, we want them to be personal.
Told right, a story is not a sales pitch.
A story is an entertaining way to deliver an important message. It's an
effective way to help you connect with someone.
So, if you want to start selling more, find ways to tell people stories. Make
them relevant. Make them personal. Make them entertaining. Most importantly,
make them a regular part of your communication with prospects.
Kevin Stirtz has developed a unique concept called
"Blow Up Your Business." He speaks to groups of professionals and
business owners who want to attract more customers and put more money in
their pocket. Kevin can be reached at
http://www.KevinStirtz.com or 952-212-4681.
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