Whether informal or formal, both
parties need to understand the parameters. These may be more important in
a long-term, formal mentoring situation, but can also influence the
success of short-term, informal mentoring.
The mentor's role is to teach and
advise the new employee. The mentor does not interfere with the supervisor
or manager's decisions. The new employee, while expected to seek the
mentor's advice, particularly on critical issues, is not bound to accept
that advice.
* Confidentiality is important.
Both parties need to feel confident that discussions remain between
them--not immediately relayed to a supervisor or manager.
* Certain areas may be considered
off-limits. The mentor needs to outline these areas at the beginning.
* Decide in advance (again,
particularly with long-term mentoring) how you will communicate. Will you
have regularly scheduled meetings? Will discussion be face-to-face, over
the telephone or even via e-mail communication? Both parties need to make
their preferences known at the beginning and reach an acceptable
compromise if the preferences are different.
* Discuss time limits. If the
mentoring period has a time limit (example, the first thirty days) the
mentor should state that at the beginning.
* Discuss time commitments.
Again, this may be more critical for the long-term, formal mentoring. The
mentor must expect to give the new employee adequate time, but the
newcomer should not expect excessive amounts of time. Setting a schedule
at the beginning (example: meet once a week the first month, then once a
month after that) avoids irritating misunderstandings later.
* Openness and respect: Both the
mentor and the person being mentored need to be open and honest, yet
respect the other. A mentor who withholds important information or
comments does not contribute to the other person's success. However, such
comments should be delivered with tact and courtesy--and (even if somewhat
hurtful) received with an open mind.
Most often the role of mentor is
associated with serving as advisor to a new employee. However, persons
interested in changing career fields might seek out a mentor or a business
coach to help them evaluate their decision and offer guidance. Or, an
employee with concerns about advancement within the company might seek out
a mentor to assist in his or her professional growth.
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